Post-Date Intelligence
The post-date intelligence you actually need.
Record a quick voice debrief after your date. Datebrief turns it into your vibe score, dating archetype, red flags, green flags, and a follow-up text — so you stop overthinking and start understanding.
Download on the App StoreiOS app · Free to download
How It Works
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Open the app right after your date. Hit record and just talk — no structure required. Raw honesty gets the best results.
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Datebrief listens, transcribes, and analyses your patterns. Your dating archetype reveals how you show up — and why.
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Red flags, vibe score, follow-up scripts, second-date probability. Everything you actually need to know.
Dating Archetypes
Datebrief identifies your pattern from the way you talk about dates — not from a quiz.
You have already planned the second date, named the dog, and mentally moved in together — and this was a coffee. Your debrief will teach you to hold more lightly.
You read between every line, parse every pause, and interpret silence as a full sentence. Your report will tell you what the signals actually mean.
Every date feels like a job interview you are simultaneously conducting and failing. Your archetype reveals what you are really screening for.
+ The Slow Burn, The Exit Strategist, and more — see all archetypes
What You Get
Vibe Score
A score from 0–10 that cuts through chemistry brain. Based on what was said, how it felt, and what patterns emerged — not just a gut check.
Red Flag Report
Your Red Flag Report calls the pattern, not just the person. Inconsistent communication, avoidance, low investment — flagged before you make a move you'll regret.
Self Insight
What this date revealed about your own pattern. The way you show up, what you tolerate, and where you could be kinder to yourself — all in your report.
Follow-up Script
Or whether not texting is the move. AI-generated scripts calibrated to your vibe score and archetype — never stare at a blank message again.
Community
See how others are using Datebrief — and what their reports revealed.
Archetype
You went into this date armor on, skeptical that consistency even exists. And then he showed up—early, attentive, driving an hour home without complaint, dropping you at the airport without needing to be convinced. You let yourself believe him, which means you let yourself be vulnerable. That's brave, and it matters that you're naming it.
Archetype
You showed up fully open, genuinely delighted, and already imagining the shape of something real. There's a beautiful generosity in how quickly you said yes to a second hangout and how readily you're rooting for this to work. The risk is that your enthusiasm is running a little ahead of the actual evidence—and you may not yet know if he's matching your pace.
Archetype
You showed up willing to give him a real chance—even when your gut flagged it immediately. You sat through discomfort, tried to laugh it off, and only when things crossed into genuinely inappropriate did you take action. But notice: you also told him 'we should do this again' on your way out. You're kind to a fault, and sometimes that kindness costs you clarity.
Private by Design
Datebrief is for personal reflection, not surveillance. Record only what you choose, keep your reports private, and use your insights to make clearer decisions.
“Our greatest wish is for you to no longer need us. Until then, we will be your most honest friend.”Download on the App Store
From the Blog
Overthinking after a date is not a personality flaw. It is your brain trying to solve a problem it does not have enough data to solve. Here is how to work with that instead of against it.
Most first-date advice is about the date itself. Almost none of it is about what happens after. That is where most people lose the plot.
You liked them. You think they liked you. But you have no idea. Here is how to read the actual signals.